But on a serious note, we need to stop "should-ing" on ourselves.
Should do that. Should do this. Should have done that differently. Should have said that. Should have taken that job. Should have majored in something else. Should have stayed married….Should've. Should've. Should've.
Enough already. Stop "should-ing" on yourself.
Living with the "shoulds" is like a cancer. It eats away at you and keeps you from living the full, abundant life God wants for you. God does NOT want you to live weary and burdened. He does NOT want you living in the past. When we live in the past, we miss out on the present AND we miss out on the future.
"Should-ing" on yourself gets you nowhere. It just holds you down from living your best life NOW and your best life TOMORROW. And "should-ing" on yourself just sounds bad!